About Abiding Love Memorial Urns

Creating Beautiful Memorial Urns
     I have been a cabinet maker and a woodworker for over 25 years looking for something more meaningful than just building and installing kitchens. Building cabinets has been a great experience and I have met a lot of wonderful people over the years. The downside of this has been a lack of opportunity to create interesting new designs that really bring out the beauty in wood.
     I began this business to set off on a new course where I could be more artistic and imaginative in my work. While this is my job, and I love it, my calling is as a pastor. It is to be there for people, in good times and bad, sharing the love that Christ has for them.
     One thing I have witnessed in my life is the difficulty people go through when they lose a loved one. Besides all of the sorrow from the death, there are financial stresses piled on as well. Many of them are caused by the funeral expenses. When funds are limited many people turn to cremation as a substantially lower cost option than a standard burial. I started designing and building cremation urns in 2014 to give away to those in need, without financial resources to buy a nice urn for their loved one.
      I have always designed them to be beautiful and worthy of holding the remains of someone that is so loved and missed by the people left behind. I am now selling several of my designs wholesale to funeral homes to better support this ministry and the volume that is needed.
     Everything I make is from solid hardwoods and handmade at my home affectionately know as Ghetto Abbey in St. Joseph, Missouri.
     My shop is equipped with the most up to date technology and equipment to produce very high quality urns in larger numbers.
      Most urns for sale today are imported and use lower quality materials as well as construction. I use domestic hardwoods such as walnut, cherry, oak, and maple.
      My goal is to provide great value, excellent design and a reasonable price, as well as creating a place to put their loved one’s cremation ashes that they can be pleased with.
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Ways to Remember a Loved One Who Has Passed Away

Ways to Remember a Loved One Who Has Passed Away

Ways to Remember a Loved One Who Has Passed Away

Introduction

Remembering a loved one who has passed away can provide comfort and keep their memory alive. There are many ways to honor and celebrate their life, each offering a unique way to connect with their memory. Here’s a guide to meaningful ways to remember a loved one.

1. Create a Memory Album or Scrapbook

Compile photos, mementos, and personal stories into a memory album or scrapbook. This can be a cherished keepsake that preserves memories and celebrates the deceased’s life. Include special moments, achievements, and personal anecdotes to create a comprehensive tribute.

2. Plant a Memorial Garden

Planting a memorial garden or tree can provide a living tribute to the deceased. Choose flowers, shrubs, or trees that were meaningful to the individual or that symbolize their life and legacy. This living memorial can serve as a place of reflection and remembrance.

3. Establish a Scholarship or Fund

Creating a scholarship or fund in the deceased’s name can offer a lasting impact and honor their legacy. Choose a cause or area of interest that was important to the individual, and use the fund to support scholarships, charitable projects, or community initiatives.

4. Hold a Memorial Service or Celebration of Life

Organize a memorial service or celebration of life to bring together family and friends to honor and remember the deceased. Include personal stories, music, and activities that reflect the individual’s personality and interests. This gathering can provide closure and offer a meaningful way to celebrate their life.

5. Create a Memorial Tribute

Design and display a memorial tribute, such as a plaque, statue, or artwork, in a place that was significant to the deceased. This tribute can serve as a lasting reminder of their impact and provide a focal point for reflection and remembrance.

6. Share Their Story

Share the deceased’s story with others through written accounts, oral histories, or social media posts. Highlight their achievements, passions, and the positive impact they had on others. Sharing their story can keep their memory alive and inspire others.

We are deeply touched by the heartfelt compliments and feedback we receive from families and friends who have entrusted us during their time of loss. Hearing how John's urns have brought comfort and meaning to their lives in truly humbling. Your stories remind us of the profound impact our work can have, and we always welcome your thoughts and experiences. If you would like to share your journey with us, we would be honored to hear it.

You can click the image below to read the story of Detective Joseph Seals, who's family is a customer and shared their story with us.

Conclusion

Remembering a loved one who has passed away can be achieved through various meaningful gestures. By creating a memory album, planting a memorial garden, establishing a scholarship, holding a memorial service, creating a tribute, and sharing their story, you can honor their life and keep their memory alive in a way that is meaningful and comforting.